Monday, June 30, 2014

52 Lists: Week 25



The words gathered from this week lead my heart to a story:

obedience. cultivate. gentleness. battling. determination. strength. filter. contributor. extension. incline. forbearance. connected. affirms. teach. gratefulness. humility.

Each morning, I wake up and take a moment to lay in bed for a few minutes. It doesn't take long before my mind begins to race. This morning wasn't any different. I have to command peace upon it, so that my mind comes into agreement with my spirit. I pulled myself out of bed and allowed my feet to touch the cold barren floor. As I slowly made my way to the kitchen to brew the coffee, I began to clean. The coffee was being filtered and so was the kitchen and the inside of the refrigerator. 

It wasn't until after I had drawn myself back to a place of stillness that I began to ponder what just happened. The act of filtration in the kitchen, was also what had occurred in my heart over the past week. There had been miscommunication, misunderstanding, etc. Basically--things had been "missed". But what had been happening was more of a heart issue than anything. I had been trying to handle situations on my own strength. I had failed to extend my hand to allow my Savior to filter, humble, and offer strength to me. I had failed to walk in obedience. But the beauty of this (as it was with the coffee and the kitchen this morning), was the lesson was a process. It required my attention and inclination of my ears and heart. How thankful I am that Jesus is forever teaching us and growing us in truth and humility.

Like my refrigerator, I'd be a mess without a good clean up in my heart. It's all because of his grace that he takes the time to do what I oftentimes neglect. What a husband! What a father! What a teacher! What a Savior! What a LORD!! 

Until next week and all that it holds...


Friday, June 27, 2014

52 Lists: Week 24

Pace. Steadiness. Current. Pattern. Enlightened.

Have you ever noticed the coming and the going of the ocean tide? My family and I love going to the beach. As a "low country" gal, the ocean was as familiar to me as my daddy's cooking. But it wasn't until a visit a few weeks ago that I started to observe the ocean tides more closely. I'm personally a fan of high tide, but there wouldn't be a high tide without a low tide. I pondered on this natural pattern. And as I did, I came to this revelation: There are currents in our lives. Relationships. Friendships. Career changes. Moves. Births. Deaths.

There is truly a time and a season for everything. And there is a current of change and of seasons. This past week has been one of ebb and flow--continually discovering more of my heart and filtering out what doesn't need to remain there. And yet, like the ocean tide, this week has been steady and has enlightened my heart--forever reminding me of the beauty of constancy and change.

So, as I began to stare at the ocean tide rise and fall, my heart was encouraged in the moment. I recollected the ebbs and flows of this past year and especially this week. I took a deep breath and can say that keeping a steady pace and current is enlightening to my heart!

Until next week (or a few days, since I'm behind)...

Hellen

Monday, June 16, 2014

52 Lists: Week 23

To laugh at oneself carries a great level of freedom!

Have you ever found yourself in a situation that you never thought you would? This was me yesterday. I somehow carried the grace to lock myself out of my house and my car! What a treat! Fortunately, I wasn't standing forlorn and helpless in my towel or bathrobe. I did have my phone in hand, as well as my water bottle. Hydrated? Check. Able to call for help? Check. Completely embarrassed? Check.

But though I was humbled in having to call for help, I was left thankful. Because I was able to get in a good laugh at myself. And boy did I ever!

As I reflect back on yesterdays "blonde" stupidity, I am reminded of how life is filled with unexpected moments. And we have a choice to see them as an opportunity to laugh or to get irritated. We can take in the moment and enjoy life for what it is and roll with it, or let the situation ruin our day. I was reminded of this again today as I got caught behind an extremely slow driver. Would I laugh or would I let irritation have the last word?

One goal of mine for this year was to laugh more than I cry. Now don't get me wrong, I've cried this year. But I've also never laughed more than I have recently.

So, take each moment today (especially the unexpected) and be reminded that it is a gift.

Until next week...

Hellen


Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Skills for Travel Consultants

What Skills do Travel Consultants Need?

Whether you are a seasoned traveler or have taken numerous road-trips, you know that trips of all kinds take planning. There are mountains of details that need to be handled in order for a trip to be successful.

Families, groups, and individuals take trips for leisure, humanitarian purposes, adoption, and business. They all have different expectations of what they desire to happen on their trip. But one thing is a common factor for all of them: discovery—discovery of who they are and their lives. They desire to leave the routine behind to embark on the unexpected.  That being said, travelers want to be prepared to know what to expect before heading into the unfamiliar.

All travel consultants need to carry specific skills in order to fulfill the desire of their client. Here are three skills that are imperative:

Communication Skills

Travel planning involves a lot of details. Therefore, it is imperative that you can communicate effectively to your client. This is not limited to one form of communication either. You need to be available to communicate in person, conference call, email, social media, etc.  Spreadsheets, invoices, and other written documentation are effective in addition to vocal communication. In the world of travel, you have many cultures to cross barriers with. Therefore, that means more communicating. Never be afraid of communicating too much! Better to be over-communicative than not enough. This helps you keep the details in order as well.

Logistical Skills

In addition to having solid communication skills, it is imperative to have logistical knowledge and expertise. Travel planning is filled with details. From flights to accommodations to cultural background, there is an extensive amount of information that you need to provide to your client , airlines, hotels, service providers, etc. It is important that you are wired to plan, plan, plan--to have the details under wraps. You’ll need to be continually one step ahead of your client’s thoughts—ready to provide all the information they need for their trip. Excel spreadsheets, charts, and word documents are a key source. As a consultant, it is advised that you have a daily, weekly, monthly, & yearly planner.  Personally, I recommend a written planner, as well as an electronic one.

Even as a student, I would advise that you begin implementing these skills into your every day life. Have a binder, planner and spreadsheets of trips you are “planning”.

Cultural Knowledge

Have you ever been to a place and truly felt like you were “lost in translation”? Maybe you were in a country where they spoke a different language. Or, maybe it was just a trip to the city or country an hour away. Either way, you felt out of your comfort zone. All of us have been there (including travel consultants).

In order to help you succeed in your skills, it is important that you are knowledgeable about different cultures. Experience is the best teacher, but you won’t always have that luxury. Go to the library. Read up on various cultures, holidays, and traditions. Volunteer with different people groups. Have a mentor who has traveled extensively. Learn from them. Watch foreign films. Go to art festivals of various cultures.  The key is to saturate your mind and soul with other parts of the world. From there, you will find your area of passion and it will seep into your client’s hearts as you communicate in helping them with their travel planning.

Communication skills, logistical skills, and cultural knowledge are the top three qualities of a travel consultant. The next post will give you some more insight into skills that will help you grow in your business.

Source:


Hellen Willett: MKI Group Travel

52 Lists: Week 22

Words. Fear. Character. Argument. Freedom.

Five words. They say so little, but speak so much. Have you ever had a week that moved like a roller-coaster? One minute it was fast and then it slowed down only to speed back up again? This past week consisted of getting back into the routine of things. After a long weekend of vacation, parties, festivities, and a lot of fun, I was excited about the mundane week ahead.

Well, as some weeks go, all my plans didn't go according to plan and I had to roll with them. In addition to this, I had friendships bringing ebb and flow to my life. Like the waves of the sea, there were moments of calm and peace and then a tidal wave of emotion submerging my heart and mind. And then stillness again.

And it all seemed to start with words--words of comfort and then of hurt. It's amazing how powerful words are and how it is the action in using them that effects our hearts. Words can cause us to love or then to fear and distrust. They reveal part of our character--our inner heart--the part that we oftentimes don't want others to see. But far too often, we don't think before we speak and we let words come out. And like tidal waves, they crash hard upon the banks of the hearts around us.

This past week, I had 2 different arguments with two people whom I love dearly. One was over miscommunication and the response was given by not speaking about what happened. Or, more likely, it was one-sided in communication. The other was laid out before both to see--like vomit. Gross. Sudden. And unwanted.

But the beautiful silver lining that I recognized through this week, was the insurmountable freedom that was given to the relationship with the open argument. Laying out oneself for the other to see, though vulnerable and difficult, was beautiful. It was a mess, but what made it beautiful was the willingness to have it out in the open for the other to see.

Up and down. Up and down. This is often the story of our lives. But it is the willingness to go through both of those places--unashamed and open--that can demonstrate the absolute beauty of this life.

I'll close with this:

You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have a say in who hurts you.

The same goes for joy. Choose openness and vulnerability. You'll win every time.

Until next week...


Monday, June 2, 2014

52 Lists: Weeks 20 & 21



This week, instead of using a lot of strenuous words and divulging my heart and soul into a story--reaching out to the vast cataclysmic void, I will leave you with the 10 words that summarized the past 2 weeks and a picture depicting it all:

Moments. Limitless. Abeyance. Imagine. Lessons.
Dedication. Unspoken. Rhythm. Felicity. Unconditional.